Sunday, December 19, 2010
Situational Friends
Situtional Friends
Perhaps better phrased as strategic alliances. I'm sure there is a more tuetonic and less emotional expression which could better summarize. We cruise through school college work love in life and it's only as the pace picks up do we really form these disposable friendships which do more to dispose of our soul than they dispose of the lonliness which we are shooting at the time. It was Rajani that once told me nothing in life is fun when it's rushed. And that's what all the strategic alliances are about - I don't need this but the posture feels like it could work. And we know it doesn't.
I had a Jack with Royce and tried to fathom how and if it mattered. Why could it matter? Well for one, you are a product of your environment. And my adhoc definition of an adult is one whom shapes their own environment. So as an adult you have an obligation to yourself to immerse intellectually in a selfish manner - within a mindset that you wish to assimilate.
